Category Archives: Mind

How To Control Happiness

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Happiness. What does it mean to be happy?

 

When I was younger I used to be fat. I hated having man boobs and not being able to do pullups when all my friends could.

 

I was under the impression that when I lost weight I would finally be happy.

 

However, during my process of losing weight I realised that I didn’t suddenly get ‘happy’ when I lost weight, but was happy because I enjoyed the process of living life to the fullest and becoming the best version of myself.

 

Remember this: happiness is a choice. It does not suddenly happen as a result of something – it is a state of mind of letting yourself live life how you truly want to live it, and not how other people expect or want you to live it.

 

-Mike

Eliminating Self Doubt

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I just wanted to share something with you guys…

 

For years I gave up trying to learn the human flag because I felt like I was just not meant to be able to do it – why on earth did I think like this?

 

We do this all the time, not just for fitness, but in life – we irrationally think that we are not capable of achieving things because most people in the world haven’t.

 

These self-limiting beliefs do absolutely nothing for us. Our beliefs and expectations craft our future: if you believe that you are meant to be a millionaire I can almost guarantee that you will be a hell of a lot richer and happier than the guy who thought he was destined to work a rubbish 9 to 5 job.

 

Beliefs are not real. They are what you desire and imagine to perceive – do not let them be boring and unambitious. Let them shape your life path in a positive way and to be used as a tool to give yourself confidence and self-belief.

 

Remember, we are all humans. No matter how ‘gifted’ or ‘lucky’ some of us are, we can all kill an ant yet are absolutely helpless to a natural disaster. No matter how much we like to think we are different, we are mostly the same. This is good because it means that you probably can also do some crazy calisthenics, be your own boss, and travel the world like some people are able to do.

 

Your beliefs craft the way you think and act. Your beliefs control your future. Believe that you are made for greatness and I guarantee that you will be happier, more successful, and more excited about life than you will ever be.

 

-Mike

 

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Why Brandon Carter Should Be Your Role Model

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You probably read the title and thought ‘wow this guy is a right kiss-ass’.

 

Well… for Brandon Carter I really am, and I will do so unapologetically because he has helped transform my life and so many others.

 

This article will explain to you simply why Brandon Carter should be your role model – I’m not getting any money or endorsements out of this by the way.

 

Motivation

 

If you are someone who lacks motivation just type in ‘Brandon Carter motivation’, and be inspired.

 

The beauty about Brandon Carter is that he leads by example. He’s not just your typical motivational speaker who tells you one thing and lives by another – if you follow his Snapchat at KillerCarter187 you will know what I mean. This guy hustles, hard.

 

His motivational speeches are so inspiring because they come from the heart; Brandon Carter’s journey was not easy. He started right from the bottom and hustled his way up. If your excuses are based around not having money or having a tough upbringing then he will put most of you to shame.

 

Essentially, his speeches are just so effective because they make you realize how much of a little bitch you are being.

 

Fitness

 

As I’ve mentioned previously, fitness has helped snowball my life. Brandon Carter was my role model in this respect too, he was one of my go-to YouTubers for fitness and advice – it is how I first got to know about him.

 

Brandon Carter started off as a fitness instructor, and most of his YouTube videos are fitness based, with sound advice on workouts and nutrition which are  effective.

 

At first I thought he was just a douchey bro-science guy, but this guy really knows his stuff; he works a lot off an experience-based science approach, where he will not just show you a random study about some method and tell you to do it, but will only preach methods which he has tried and tested for himself first, such as intermittent fasting and HIIT.

 

Knowledge

 

When I first saw Brandon Carter I thought he was a bit cocky and big headed, but after I while I started to realise that Brandon Carter is a smart motherfucker. Brandon believes that knowledge is power, and once again he preaches this by constantly reading and learning. He is an entrepreneur who has a successful supplement business, so once again he leads by example.

 

In his videos and on his Snapchat he always passes down the knowledge and information that he learns, which can really help you soak in amazing advice which can help transform your life.

 

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Brandon Carter is my role model (if you haven’t figured that out already), simply because he is down to earth, real, and is the true definition of a leader.

 

If you want someone who will not sell you dreams, will inspire and motivate you, and will help guide you down the path you truly want to live, then Brandon Carter is your guy.

 

-Mike

 

 

How To Get Back In Shape

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The other day I got an email from a reader named Phil who used to train really hard and made great progress, but then for some reason stopped and lost all of the gains that he previously made. Here is the email:

 

“Seen your post about tagging someone, although i need the motivation myself. I used to train at a high intensity maybe about 6 times per week. I put on good mass and was progressing strength wise steadily. However i have stopped training for the past year and have lost any gains i had previously made. I was training using HIIT and overload and deloading but i feel like i have lost all knowlodge of my workouts now because i am back to basic level of strength. Any advice is appreciated ! Cheers, phil”

 

I chose to talk about this email because I feel it happens a lot amongst us; we train really hard for a while then we end up stopping and lose all progress – it used to happen to me too.

 

So how do we stop this?

 

The cause

 

In most cases, and probably for Phil’s, he stopped training as he was trying to hard – funnily the things you commit to the most are often the things that you end up giving up at – I remember back in the days when I used to try and go on super strict diets, sure I’d lose a stone, but I could never keep it up and just rebounded hard.

 

The root of this problem is due to over-sacrifice: you may not realise it, but if you are sacrificing too much, whether it is motivation, time, or other things (e.g. pizza etc) it makes it easier to quit due to it feeling like more of a burden instead of something that you look forward to do each day.

 

So how can we stop over-sacrificing and get back in shape?

 

Next time around I’d suggest two things:

 

1) Keep your workouts simple, short, and interesting

 

I’m a big fan of having a strength component in my training routine; it’s fun and exciting because you’re always becoming a better version of yourself. It’s also always a challenge which excites me to want to go and work out. I always focus on low rep compound lifts first, then follow up with a few sets of higher rep hypertrophy movements, such as in my free training program.

 

For me, this is perfect as I even though I run a fitness website I have no motivation to go to the gym if I don’t have a purpose or goal. Having my short and long term strength goals keeps me excited to go out and strive to become a better version of myself.

 

2) Do not sacrifice anything

 

This probably sounds incredibly counterintuitive, but hear me out: as mentioned above, when you decide to give up certain foods or sacrifice huge amounts of time or willpower you start to resent fitness; when I tried to cut out carbs I just hated it (pizza = my life).

 
Instead, simply make small and gradual commitments which slowly become a habit. For example, I’ve decided to finally be able to touch my toes so I literally do 3 10-second stretches each day – that’s it. It requires no motivation and willpower, and it takes so little of my time that I am more than happy to do it, especially as I know that this will gradually lead to me seeing great exponential results. I mean, who can’t spend 30 seconds to stretch? Already I’ve made great improvements, and it is now something I just do without thinking.

 

For Phil I suggested he start off with something easy like a set or two of pushups each day – it will require little to no sacrifice for him and it will be easy to develop into a habit. Once he appreciates the gradual improvements that he is making to himself fitness will start to no longer be a burden, but instead turn into something he will actually want to do. From there on he will naturally start to desire to further improve upon yourself, and will effortlessly dedicate more time to become a stronger, bigger and better version of himself.

 

Using these methods will help you ignite a fire which will burn and grow on its own, instead of having to use up all your willpower and determination to keep it going.

 

Hope this helps! If you have any questions email me at mike@unigains.com

 

-Mike