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Why you are not successful

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From a young age, I always seemed to be good at things.

 

Why?

 

Because I had the discipline and motivation to practice.

 

It has always baffled me why others could not get as good grades as mine at school – was it because I was just smarter? No – all I did was study more.

 

When I did speak to friends or family as to why, they would just go ‘Mike, you’re just smart!’

 

I almost started to believe that… until a month ago.

 

What did I find out?

 

As you know UNIGAINS is still pretty young, only a few months old.

 

To start things off I figured I would start it with a bang and offer free complete personal training to anyone.

 

Not just a consultation or weekly review, but 24/7 help.

 

I scoured the fitness section in Reddit and contacted over 100 people who asked questions to the community; these were people that clearly needed help.

 

I offered these people to personally train them and over 15 of them said yes! 

 

I was so excited; finally, I would be able to help people, get some experience and build up my reputation! But…

 

Within 5 days 95% stopped replying.

 

I was shocked.

 

Free personal training was being offered. I even told them what my lifts were and showed my willingness to help them – there was no financial incentive on my part… yet people left before I could even put them on my program.

 

Admittedly, offering help on Reddit may not be the most credible source, however, I told them exactly what my lifts were and what I specialized in – would you turn down free training?

 

I never thought that people would… I guess I was wrong.

 

However, this taught me three very valuable lessons…

 

1. Most people lose the battle before it even starts.

 

 

At first I thought that people gave up as they saw no results after a while, however, what I’ve now found is that people are afraid to commit when they think they will lose.

 

The (very brief) clients that I had felt they could not achieve in the first place.

 

They could have had the most detailed and planned out diet & exercise routine which would transform their lives, but they would quit as they did not believe in themselves.

 

It just goes to show how much your mind influences fitness so much…

 

2. If your mind does not want to get results, NOTHING will help you.

 

That’s the sad, brutal truth.

 

If you do not have that winning mentality, then you will not achieve. Simple as that.

 

I see this in the gym all the time:

 

People are doing ridiculous things: quarter squats, the worst deadlift form I have ever seen in my life, and super-alternating-quadruple-drop sets… Yet they still get results.

 

Why?

 

They are consistent.

They believe they can get results, and work hard to achieve them.

 

A sub-optimal routine applied consistently is a kajillion times better than applying the best routine inconsistently – consistency is what separates the best from the average.

 

3. Price influences quality

 

Why do the most expensive packages tend to get the best results?

 

Our brains equate quality to price

 

This was described perfectly by Robert Cialdini in his book on influence.

 

He described how a tourist shop owner he knew was struggling to make some sales.

 

She was going away for a while, so she asked her assistant to slash the price in half so she could at least get some sales.

 

When she came back, her shop was cleared out, but the prices were doubled – her assistance mistook her note to double the prices instead of half them!

 

This shows how exactly the same product can be worth more simply due to it having a higher price tag.

 

This could be a potential reason as to why people did not follow through with my free personal training offer.

 

If I mentioned that the service would have been more expensive maybe a few more heads would have turned, and it would have helped people jumpstart their brains into thinking that they had a true opportunity which they simply could not miss.

 

However, I still believe that their failing mindset would have got the better of them.

 

Do you think your mindset is destined for failure?

 

How many times have you failed at achieving a goal?

Lacking motivation to work out?

Do you really want to get your act together and be more productive, but don’t know how?

 

If you have answered yes to one of these, then please contact me at mike@unigains so we can work on transforming your body and mind.

 

I want you to achieve, and that is why I will refund the first month if you do not get results.

 

I charge £40 a month for online body and mind coaching.

 

All I ask is for you to make this one commitment and sign up to this – you have absolutely nothing to lose.

 

I do not offer this for free anymore, as you need to physically commit yourself to train your mind to be successful.

 

Make this one commitment and set yourself up for success.

 

-Mike

 

Got any questions? Email me at mike@unigains.com

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your Complete Step-By-Step Guide to Fitness Success

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If you have landed on this page then you are a lucky, lucky person… let me tell you why:

I feel nice today, really nice, and I have decided to detail to you step-by-step how to plan your fitness journey right from the very start – I’m going to tell you how to develop the correct mindset, set effective goals, and actually go out and achieving them effortlessly…

 

Honestly, what I’m about to give you here could have been made into an ebook and sold for $20, but I will lay it out all for you right now out of the goodness of my heart, and my desire to transform your life.

 

Think I cannot possibly be more generous than that? Keep reading.

 

If you have been having a rollercoaster ride with fitness and have not seen results, then this is the guide for you.

 

So are you prepared to finally get into shape? Bookmark this page and share it with your loved ones so they can get their act together too.

 

STEP 1: The Mindset

 

We are not here to work hard for 2 weeks then give up… you are in it for the long term – for life.

The commitment you are going to make right now is bigger than marriage, this is going to define you in ways unimaginable.

 

The main thing that you have to get into your mind is that you cannot get up and run 100 miles.

 

Imagine your goal is to walk/run 100 miles. Are you really going to try and sprint it? No… you are going to pace yourself, and focus on one step at a time.

The same applies with achieving the body you want; do you really think that going on a crash diet and trying to achieve it in two years is feasible? NO… It takes years, and you are going to have to pace yourself.

 

Now I bet half of you are thinking of closing this page and going about your normal life as it’s just not worth it – “what is the point in putting in so much effort into something that may take months before I see the slightest results?”

Well, the beauty is that it can be so effortless – most of you can walk a mile so easily – right? In just over 3 months your 100 mile goal is achieved without breaking a sweat.

On the other hand, if you tried to run 10 miles each day it will seem like the worst thing in the world and even I would go ‘fuck it, not worth it’.

 

Look, I know you would love to have a better body than you do right now… who doesn’t want to be a little bit leaner, be a bit more muscular/toned, and just be able to do more shit without being tired?

All you have to think about now is whether you want to try ridiculously hard and try and achieve it quickly (crashing and burning miserably), or taking the effortless route and achieving your goal later down the line without even realising… it’s a no-brainer.

 

So now we have our steady and consistent mindset in place – good; now let’s move on to goals.

 

Step 2 – Goals… and forgetting about them.

 

People over emphasise the importance of specific goals; for fitness, I actually think that they can be detrimental.

 

Fitness is a journey which takes time, and constantly reminding yourself of a goal so far away which seems so impossible can be the most demotivating thing ever.

Also, with fitness you do not really know how long it takes to achieve specific goals, and whether the goals actually make sense.

A lot of the time people who want to be leaner only focus on the weight aspect, without realising that sometimes losing weight will not actually make always look better.

 

Over-focusing on specific goals may not be the best course of action.

 

I would love to bench 140kg; but I am only at 105kg, which is ages away – setting a goal to bench 140kg by the end of the year will lead to me failing it miserably and becoming demotivated.

Instead, I just focus on being consistent in the gym and increasing my weight.

 

So what should I do?

 

Set yourself an ideal goal – for me it is benching 140kg, squatting 180kg, and deadlifting 220kg.
This goal should stay at the back of your mind and you should rarely think about it; you are ages away – it is probably not going to happen anytime soon.

The main point of your goals is to know the direction you want to head in – there is no point in losing weight when you actually want to get stronger.

 

Now it’s time to be a little more specific about what we actually need to achieve, and the steps we need to take to achieve it – I like to call these action plans.

In reality, the action plans are still very simple…

 

  • Getting Leaner: Decreasing weight and maintaining strength levels
  • Building Muscle and getting stronger: Increasing weight and increasing strength levels

 

Now you want to go slightly more detailed when you have your general action plan, and develop action points – these are things you want to be achieving on a daily basis.

 

The main focus should be on consistency.

 

For example, a good action point is going to the gym 5 days a week, eating a certain amount of calories, or taking one less bite of that donut every day; it should be something that you can track and measure. We will touch on this more in the next section…

 

Need help creating long-term goals, action plans, and action points? Email me at mike@unigains.com and I will help you out for free –  I’m feeling really nice… don’t miss out.

 

STEP 3 – Implementation

 

Okay, by now you should have a rough understanding of what you would generally like to achieve, and the direction you want to be heading in.

 

It is now time to implement this – this is where most of us fail… but not today.

 

I’m going to plan out two routes – one for losing weight and one for building muscle, which you can implement right now to start seeing some results.

You know what? I’m feeling so nice that I will give you free weekly reviews for a month if you email me your progress on a daily basis – Email me your progress at mike@unigains.com.

 

Losing weight

 

First of all, measure your weight. Email me it.

 

For the first week, all I want you to do is log everything you eat (see, I told you this will be easy!)
Just track every single bite you eat on your phone, then look at it before you go to bed and ask yourself one question – am I happy with what I ate?

 

Email me what you ate each day and how you feel.

 

At the end of the week, measure your weight again. Email me it.

 

It is fine if you don’t lose any weight, I don’t expect you too. The reason for this task is to build up your character and consistency.

There is also another reason – and I will talk to you about it at the end of the first week.

 

Now carry on writing down what you eat each day, but identify one thing that you would like to change. This should be so small that it takes no willpower whatsoever.

An example of this is literally eating a bite less of the muffin you eat each day with your coffee, or swapping one chocolate bar for a piece of fruit.

Exercise-wise, it could be doing just one set of wall pushups a day – just one set.

 

Focus on one thing each week, and watch as you slowly and effortlessly accumulate momentum and willpower.

 

I want you to do this for 3 weeks. That’s 3 different small tiny changes.

 

Every day I want you to email me how you feel your day went, and give me some feedback on the action point set.

I will reply back with feedback and advice once a week (free for a limited time – don’t miss out!).

 

If you are struggling in identifying action points, tell me everything about yourself; your goals, your lifestyle, your struggles etc. This will allow me to  help you select some key relatable action points which will help you progress so easily.

 

You now have the key fundamentals in place to make steady, consistent progress to lose weight – all you need now is guidance on your journey.

This is why it is key that every day you email me your progress and how you are doing.

 

Let me guide you and help you stay on the right path.

 

Once I believe you are ready, we can move on to calculating calories and really start creating that unstoppable momentum – prove to me that you are capable and willing to get results.

 

Building Muscle

 

Honestly, building muscle is so easy – as long as you forget about it.

 

Building muscle is the longest thing ever, and that’s why thinking about it will just lead to us becoming demotivated as we are making no progress. Instead, let’s focus on getting stronger and heavier, as this leads to you getting bigger.

 

Again, the problem lies with consistency, so that is what we are going to focus on.

 

For the first week, if you have a gym membership, all I want you to do is get in the gym – that’s it.

Every day, just get yourself in the gym, you don’t have to do anything – you can chat to some girls then leave.

 

If you do not have a gym membership, I want you to do literally just do 5 pushups a day – It does not have to be in a row, just do 5 pushups.

You can do one in the morning, one at lunchtime, two in the afternoon, and one before you go to bed – or you can just do 5 in one go.

 

Again, email me how you do every single day at mike@unigains.com – this is KEY FOR SUCCESS.

 

Now for the next three weeks, if you have a gym membership, just keep on turning up for the next three weeks and have a laugh. That’s it.

If for some reason you cannot go to the gym on a particular day, then follow the no-gym method below on those days.

 

If you do not have access to a gym, then move on to doing 7 pushups a day in week two, 9 in week three, and 11 in week four – That’s it.

“But seriously Mike, are you having a laugh? This is honestly too easy…”

 

I know.

 

But do you know why this is so key? It builds character.

They key is to build that winning mentality of being consistent and disciplined, without even trying – this is how you achieve fitness success.

 

I will assess your progress and feedback over the 4 weeks, and may give you slightly more challenging tasks depending on how you are progressing.

 

The above is the bare minimum that you have to do.

 

If you do the above for the next month and email me every single day, you will be on the right track for success.

 

Remember, I’m doing this for free because I really want to help all of you out there – it is up to you to prove to yourself that you really want to make a change to your life.

 

Just follow out these extremely easy steps each day, and be consistent.

 

If you start making excuses about not being able to spend 1 minute writing down what you ate and sending a quick review to me; then you don’t want it enough.

 

If you want to make a change and need the guidance and help to do so, then join me now and work with me to transform your body and mind.

 

I look forward to hearing from you!

 

-Mike

 

Got any questions? Email me at mike@unigains.com

 

 

 

The Main Reason You’re Failing To Go Gym After Work

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Most of us, including me, spend around 10 hours of our day commuting and working; and it drains the fuck out of us.

 

After we’re done the only thing that most of us want to do is eat and watch TV…

 

But I know that deep inside you would love to do be more healthy and active and take some steps to transforming your physique.

 

So behold the main reason which is stopping you from wanting to exercise, and how to overcome it…

 

You’re not getting enough sleep

 

Before you say anything – I know… you probably here this all the time… But let me actually explain to you on a personal level how sleep affects my life:

 

For Christmas I got a Fitbit – you know one of those things which monitors your heart rate, calories, steps etc. For me the most useful feature of it is the sleep monitor; basically, it tells you how many hours of sleep you’re getting each night.

 

Now in the beginning of January I started to feel progressively worse over the course of a few weeks – eventually leading to me injuring my chest and just feeling very shitty.

 

After looking at my sleep stats on my Fitbit I realised that I feel really good on 7-8 hours of quality sleep a day. However, those two weeks I was hovering around the 6 hour mark – A lack of sleep affects you SO MUCH.

 

I know correlation does not mean causation, but I have noticed it before; when I had a lack of sleep over a few days I did slowly get ill and just felt less fucked to do shit – and I know that a lot of you feel like that a lot.

 

Eventually that lack of sleep I had led to me skipping a few days of gym, and ultimately injuring myself as I tried to push myself too hard when I was under the weather (mainly my fault for being stupid, but still…)

 

Okay cool, no sleep makes you ill, but how enough sleep make me go gym?

 

How you start your day has such a huge affect on the rest of the day – if you don’t get enough sleep, you will feel groggy, and everything will piss you off that little bit more than usual…

 


You are more likely to be late as you rushed out the house, will be more stressed, and have less willpower and energy to work. Tiny little things will build up over the day and just shit on your mood. This paired with the lack of initial energy to start with results in you wanting to do absolutely fuck all when you get home.

 

On the other hand, going to bed at a reasonable time will allow you to wake up in a better state of mind; you will be both physically and mentally prepared for the day with your willpower fully-charged. Tiny things such as slight train delays will not piss you off, and you will generally be more up-beat and positive about the day going forward; you may even not mind the boring work that you’re doing!

 

Better sleep also leads to better decisions. When we are tired most of us simply just want sugar to boost are energy levels up… sugar is not the best if we’re trying to become fitter and healthier. Getting enough sleep will encourage you to eat better food, which will even further elevate your mood; now you’re not only energised but feel motivated that you’re making positive decisions!

 

Slowly throughout the day you will build yourself a positive snowball which keeps on getting bigger and gaining momentum as you carry on making good decisions.
By the time you get to that time when the idea of going to the gym smashes your snowball into little pieces, your snowball will be too large and moving too fast to be stopped… dare I say you will have the willpower and motivation to want to go gym!

 

A good night’s sleep = good decisions and positive momentum. Remember that.

 

Mike

 

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Why Fitness Is The Key To Success

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Being successful is a funny thing…

 

If you look around, you will see that people who are successful at one thing tend to be successful in another…

 

Take Neil Patel for example – this guy created a successful website which absolutely raked in the cash, whilst he was in college

 

You are probably thinking, “oh this is just a one-time thing – people just get that lucky break right?”

 

I thought that too until I saw that he made another 3 successful online businesses.

 

Now do you get my point? If you have a successful mentality, you can be successful at anything.

 

So how on earth does fitness help?

 

Fitness is one of the greatest tools out there to develop that successful mentality – why?
Becoming fitter and stronger than you were yesterday is a huge challenge; one that requires determination, dedication, discipline, and willpower.

 

However, if you are able to stay consistent in developing your body, you will learn to develop key characteristics that is shared amongst successful people.

 

Fitness helps you learn how to formulate a strategy to achieve your goals; stay disciplined even when you have no willpower; learn to enjoy the process to achieving a goal and lets you understand and appreciate the patience and commitment which is needed to create something amazing.

 

Getting into fitness was the best thing that ever happened to me.

 

I can honestly say that fitness made me who I am today – I would not have got 8A*s and 2A’s at GCSE, and 2A*S and 2 A’s at A-level.

 

I would not be working in one of the top 5 biggest global accountancy networks from only 18 years old and building my way up the business ladder to a prosperous future.

 

But most importantly, I would not have become the confident, determined individual which I am today.

 

Oh, and also, I wouldn’t look pretty damn good (in my opinion… long way to go!)

Without fitness, I would have stayed that same semi-ambitious slob who just talks about being successful but never does anything about it – stop being that person.

 

Join me in becoming an amazing version of yourself, and developing that winning mentality which lets you achieve absolutely anything you set your mind to.

 

-Mike

 

P.S Go here to see how I can help you develop the body and mind of a champion.

 

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